“I couldn’t forgive him them or like him them but I saw that what he they had done was, to him them, entirely justified.  It was all very careless and confused.  They were careless people, Tom and Daisy Congress — they smashed up things and creatures and then retreated back into their money or their vast carelessness or whatever it was that kept them together, and let other people clean up the mess they had made….”

F. Scott Fitzgerald. The Great Gatsby (1925).